[Mindset Repatterning]

In this podcast, you’ll hear a Mindset Repatterning session where I guide my client, actor Mark Neely, in an exploration of the challenges faced by people of color while navigating Hollywood. By the end, Mark felt uplifted and inspired by a new, inclusive vision of what Hollywood is meant to be.

Here’s a breakdown of what’s covered:

5:20 – Letting go of negative “relationships” with acting.

11:40 – Switching agents and the relationship going south (inciting incidents).

19:10 – “Let me into the race and I’ll get the job done.”

20:10 – Conflicting beliefs: the up-front role vs the background role.

22:40 – Identifying mystery blocks to acting success.

24:04 – Naming the “ugly stuff” so you can get a bigger shift.

25:30 – Checking for patterns, not truth or falsehood.

27:20 – “The people who control Hollywood won’t let me in.”

29:40 – Divine timing of an experience; so it can be cleared to make way for what you want.

36:25 – Fitting in with Kerry Washington, “Let’s have some fun!”

38:12 – Being in front of the camera is magical… just where he wants to be.

43:50 – Same mindset for auditions and for shooting: “Let’s do a great story and make some magic.”

49:45 – Feeling excluded–being on the outside.

57:05 – The privilege of working with others in the industry.

58:30 – The ego destroying the magic (do you have to be arrogant to succeed as an actor?)

1:04:08 – “The fine line” of being accepted by actors at a certain level.

1:06:20 – Being a Black actor in a stereotypical role (the first time race is mentioned).

1:08:40 – Not wanting to be a victim or “blamey” about racism.

1:12:00 – Learning to be in a “minimal place”; having to work harder to be accepted.

1:21:20 – The real decision-makers and money-makers aren’t POC.

1:23:30 – Resistance to even naming the “ugliness”… the problem.

1:27:17 – “Hate and privilege from white people who run studios doesn’t let me or people who look like me in.”

1:29:10 – Justifiable anger in the face of injustice.

1:31:15 – The “magic genie result.”

1:34:00 – Flipping the script: “studios are multicultural” and “open the gates with love and appreciation for the talents of everyone.”

1:35:35 – Importance of the stories from artists.

1:41:12 – Stepping into the role of main studio head to apologize for the wrongs they’ve done

1:44:05 – Expressing gratitude for Mark’s willingness to be vulnerable and represent those who are excluded.

1:46:00 – Rechecking the statements; noticing how the negative statements now sound like they came from a completely different person–“the old you.”
 
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